I am given one million gallons of milk and and thousand tonnes of sugar. I have to use it all. But the milk can't be too sweet or too bland to taste. I need to know how much will go with how much and how long it will take to use it all up.
Thats what love is like. You have a huge load of sugar (affection, care, warmth) but you need to strike a balance to make milk shake. Don't use it all in one go. Don't hold back too much for then you will stop enjoying the moment.
Balance outside comes automatically when there is balance within. You gotta love yourself before you can even understand loving another.
My friend said - whatever you do make sure you have fun. I thinks thats very important.
I can't stand ideology wrapped in morality and self righteousness. I meet it everyday.
More often people like to sell wisdom.
It takes confidence and depth to keep quiet even if you don't agree. But more often unfortunately it only takes fear for people to keep quiet.
There is great imbalance... the divides are great - rich and poor, hungry and well fed, illiterate and educated, hindu and muslim, marathi and bhaiyya, above poverty line and below poverty line, etc etc etc.. But there are greater levelers.... love fear kindness hatred happiness sadness and all the other intangibles. Happiness does not check my bank balance before knocking at my door, not does fate or luck.
There are two worlds I occupy, the one limited by sight and the one which is boundless within.
But I need the balance to make the transition.... as said the enlightened Buddha!